Why it’s difficult to pass love compliments to your family. ….… Writing by Asma Tariq.

Yesterday  I  was watching a play in which  a child asks  her mother  and father ,  why you don’t say me, I love you .The parents get shocked  and tell their  child  it’s not a film  in which  we need to say each other I love you , go to your room and do your work. Then the child goes to her sister and ask  her say me , I love you, she replies: what the non sense it’s , go from here and do your  work.  Child comes back in his room and  ponder why it’s difficult  to say  to our family  I love you  when  they really love each other  but it’s  not  difficult for any man to say I love you to any other woman  when he has no relation with her.
After watching  it , I  got a  idea  let’s make an activity  ,  We people  who  believe  in  personal  development  often make  some activities  to get the things in concluded form .
My activity was that at first to check myself  that can I say I love to my parents  siblings and friends  and  to notice their reaction.
At first I proved bit difficult to say this  simple sentence   but then I went to mother and siblings  and  said them I love you. .Aww the reaction  was amazing  every body  get  shocked  at first  then ask me what’s special today  , there reactions  were full of  fun  for me  .
Then I sent text message to  some family members of mine  and  to some friends  and got same reaction from there side which was also  full of fun. .
Most people  get surprised and in return asked what special  about  today,  some  didn’t  reply, but there were also some people  who became happy and pass the same compliment  in return with more love and they all are family  members  and friends ,  who  know I love them and they love  me but felt reluctant to  listen it and made me reluctant too.
I  was thinking  why it was  difficult  to  say I love you to our family and freinds when  we don’t feel  any ashame  to get angry with one another and passing  hatred compliments. But after seeing these replies  it was easy for  me to categories them,  the people  who didn’t  reply  or replied what’s that, are those  who were thinking  I have made some mistake to send them this  , they are  very conservative in expressing  their emotions and possibly for them it’s  enough difficult to  express  their feelings even when they want to express  . And the  people  who  replied with answer I love you too  but what’s special about today are those  who  always need some special  occasion or things  to express  their feelings and they are those  who  think,  you should  wear new dress and  get ready  when  you need to go outside  and  for them  it’s  unfair to  get ready for your own self .But they need to understand there  must be somethings that should be only for you without any special occasion.
And the people  who  replied  with the same compliment with more love are those who really  love  and enjoy  the expression of feelings  and emotions and  they usually  express their feelings  and they often make you feel special during conversation with their words.For them  expression  of everything is  necessary, if I am  saying they’re good in expressing love they also have command in expressing anger.
Well that’s about activity  but the point of discussion is that how miser  we are in expressing love for each other,when it’s very easy for us to express our anger.  Yeah some people’ll say that express your love through your actions yeah  I also believe in it but man also need words to express their feelings .
If you remember when man was created what was the first thing he learnt that was words…Why , to communicate  . That’s what I am saying man’s  need to express himself with each other and my point of view is that when we express our sadness,our anger,our  desires why not love..
Say I love you to your mother, father ,  sisters, brothers ,husband, wife  and friends who are waiting for some love words  from your side and if they are  at far distance, call them  or text them, you’ll notice how much pleasant they would feel after listening or seeing it. Spread love and spread happiness. Although it’s not a film but we are humans who need expressions too we wait throughout the  life to listen some lovely and good  compliment from our love ones . Many of us are there who never even pass each other any gratitude compliment  but we are used to with the critic  compliments that’s why for us it’s difficult to digest the love  or gratitude words . A Husband was asked to say, I love you to your wife. He replied with astonish who says  I love you  to a wife .When   father  was asked to  say I love you  to her daughter, he said  don’t use these bad language before my daughter  .Alas for  our mindset, it’s good   for us to pass critic and hatred compliments to each other but we get a deathbed when we  are asked to say some gratitude and love sentence  to our love ones even our parents or children whom you love more than any other thing .Think about it. ….

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